A Yoruba woman identified as Zainab, has disclosed to a Customary Court in Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo state, to officially dissolve her marriage over her husband’s inability to satisfy her in bed.
According to Tribune, Zainab disclosed that: “My husband is not a man. Although, he has a good look which makes women fall for him, but below, he is lifeless. We got married four years ago and I was looking forward to a blissful marriage which I believe coupulating has an important role to play in, but I ended up being disappointed and devastated. Early in our marriage, after the day’s work, I would expect my husband to initiate ‘sleeping with me’ while I was always prepared to satisfy him but to my chagrin, he would get into bed and sleep off or pretend to be asleep. Initially, I was reserved and couldn’t demand for it, but after starving me for long, I summoned courage and discussed it with him.”
The lady added that: “His initial excuse was that his job was too demanding and always left him fagged out. The first time we had slept together, my husband was shaking and sweating as if he saw a ghost. I realised that he was already through with it before we started anything at all. The experience was awful and I was left unsatisfied and this had been the pattern the few times we had made love in our four years of marriage. I knew there was a problem, but he was not ready to discuss it.
I need not be told that my husband is impotent. Our childless union was enough proof. I eventually left his house and got married to another man, who aside taking good care of me, is superb in bed. I had a baby for my new husband a year after I left my first husband. I’m happy and I’m enjoying my new marriage. I no more love my first husband which is the reason for asking for a divorce.”
The judge identified as, Chief Ademola Odunade, who after listening to the lady disclosed that the marriage should be dissolved and a repayment of dowry should be made by the accuser to the defendant.
Nawa o!
